The Way You Want to Be Loved (Book Talk)

Friday, October 18, 2024 | 6pm to 7:30pm

25 West 43rd Street, 10th Floor, Room 1000
between 5th & 6th Avenues, Manhattan

Author/professor Aruni Kashyap will read from his new story collection, The Way You Want to Be Loved (Gaudy Boy, 2024).

At a New Delhi conference, an Assamese writer is interrogated on why he writes about magical folktales instead of the insurgencies. A mother splashes around in the village lake to mask the lovemaking sounds of her son with another man. A newly-arrived graduate student in Minnesota navigates living arrangements with his white roommate, Mike, and Mike’s Indian girlfriend. 

In agile and frank prose, The Way You Want to Be Loved tells the stories of queer, displaced lives from India’s Northeast, an underrepresented region in English fiction. A hybrid cast of characters represents the common people in these thirteen stories, whether western-trained academic or village sorcerer, army soldier or local politician, homeward-bound son or dutiful daughter-in-law. They wrestle with diasporic melancholia, the social pressures of familial duty, and the search for their own personhood, even as they live in a world where personhood is continually compromised and reshaped under oppressive forces larger than themselves. Aruni Kashyap offers up a powerful critique of the malfunctioning democracies of India and the U.S., deftly balancing devastation and tragedy with a darkly humorous tone that has readers questioning their laughter. 

Purchase Book: https://singaporeunbound.org/the-way-you-want-to-be-loved

Author Bio

Aruni Kashyap is Associate Professor of English & Creative Writing and Director of the Creative Writing Program at the University of Georgia, Athens, and 2024-2025 Harvard Radcliffe Institute Fellow. Kashyap is the author of His Father’s Disease: Stories (Lubin & Kleyner, 2021) and the novel The House With a Thousand Stories (Penguin, 2013). He is also the editor of How to Tell the Story of an Insurgency: Fifteen Tales From Assam (HarperCollins India, 2020), and the translator of two novels from Assamese to English, published by Zubaan Books and Penguin Random House.

Kashyap is the recipient of the National Endowment for the Arts Fellowship, the Faculty Research Grants in the Humanities and Arts Program, the Arts Lab Faculty Fellowship, and the Charles Wallace India Trust Scholarship for Creative Writing to the University of Edinburgh. His poetry collection, There is No Good Time for Bad News (FutureCycle, 2021), was nominated for the 58th Georgia Author of the Year Awards 2022, a finalist for the Marsh Hawk Press Poetry Prize, and the Four Way Books Levis Award in Poetry. His translations have also been nominated for the Armory Square Prize for South Asian Literature in Translation 2023 and VOW Book Awards 2024.

Kashyap’s short stories, poems, and essays have appeared in Catapult, Bitch Media, The Boston Review, Electric Literature, The Oxford Anthology of Writings from Northeast, The Kenyon Review, The New York Times, The Guardian UK, and others.